During this General Election period, engaged couple that will be
getting married might be in doubt or in panic mode. Almost everything is
paid and ready for the Big Day.
However, many friends and family
might be worried and said something that you would hate to hear and all
the pressure is on because your wedding day is around the corner.
However, I can share some tips here especially those who are considering rescheduling their wedding event.
1. 'Chuck Mun' Day doesn't have to be the same day with wedding dinner
day. It could be a day before, a day after or weeks before or after. We
have seen wife got pregnant; they host their Wedding Dinner a year after
their 'Chuk Mun' Day.
2. If really want to change 'Chuk Mun'
date or Wedding Dinner date, seek for your 'Tong Shu' Master or your
wedding planner advise. Do not put yourself in miserable mode by talking
to your friends. Seek for professional help ASAP because they more
experience and deal with many odd cases.
3. Some already booked
their restaurant 1 year or 2 years earlier, and the Tong Shu is not
issued yet that time. When the 'Tong Shu' is issued, the 'Tong Shu'
Master will analyses if the dinner date is suitable for 'Chuk Mun'. If
it is not suitable, he will try his best to get a date nearest or most
convenient for the engaged couple and family. Couple must be well
prepared to organize both wedding event separately.
4. However,
not all couple can get married on certain years. We have rejected two
engaged couple to let them get married due to Tong Shu not allowed it.
If they insist, we suggest them to go find another 'Tong Shu' Master.
Last but not least, lucky enough if your fiance is by your side to
support you. We have seen couple split and the wedding have to be call
off.
Many couple are stress-out because of family pressure,
financial issue, lack of time or others. When you are in such dilemma,
most friends will only advise you or comfort you but the actions and
decision still have to be done by yourself.
What my advise is, seek for professional help ASAP.
Wedding business is all about networking, if your vendor are not able
to help you or reschedule on this case, means they do not have many
contacts or other vendor/colleague to back-up them when they are not
available.
I always tell my clients, you won't be worried if you have hired the right person to work for you.
Written By: SS2U Wedding Shop
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